Self Loathing, can overcome.

Self Loathing, can overcome.

Order to change and overcome the feeling of hatred and contempt for oneself is essential start to identify, explore and analyze the moments in life where these feelings began and people who promote and situations in which they occurred. For example, although few amazing ezca,is quite common find people, men and women who have been physically assaulted and blame for what happened. They are saying torture know that they are ones who have allowed such atrocities happen them.

And in some cases even transmit the mothers is cruelly idea. They tell openly or indirectly that they are guilty of aggression. Heartrending make comments like something've done to this you happened you, or perhaps provoked you, too, may pass you were looking, they want. a whole welter of nonsense. In this situation is essential identify people who transmit these messages because ers and cruel. Identify emotional responses following messages of support or destructive is essential to know who helps and who not facing a painful situation, because one needs know clearly who worsens the traumatic experience and emotional stability.

Unfortunately, quite often the victims of physical or psychological abuse are accused of encouraging attacks. This cruel act leads to develop, among other things, a deep depressive disorder that is reliving the traumatic experience again and again. In these cases the victim experiences the so called "secondary victimization" .This is the emotional response that has a victim of any aggression (verbal, physical, sexual, psychological abuse, neglect, abuse or harassment) after being accused of causing their own aggression.

In these cases misunderstanding and lack of support from the people around they have devastating emotional consequences; It is not only victim of the traumatic event, but also others will blame it. This act has different consequences and serious mental health of the person. One, among many, is that the victim obstructs perception of herself in which he despises to take responsibility and blame for what has happened, causing retraumatization and intense feelings of hatred towards his own person; loses objectivity and reality is distorted.

Sometimes Is also common find that when communicating the event are accused of exaggerating or even inventing aggression and sometimes no consequences for the aggressor or is acquitted. In these cases the victim is the kind, remains in a state of bewilderment impotence, with feelings of emptiness and pain creating a deep emotional wound and a deep state of helplessness.

finish as I started with the thesis.

order to change and overcome the feeling of hatred and contempt for oneself is essential start to identify, explore and analyze the moments in life where these feelings began and people who promote and situations in which they occurred.