The emotions.
The emotions.
Emotions are a human characteristic, arising from changes.
Every gesture we make, every glance what surrounds us and every feeling that moves us is so dictated by emotion. Emotions are not a luxury or something dispensable, are not a stream of feelings and sensations passengers ysin importance but walking us every minute and guide our behavior through pain and pleasure. Emotions are key because they modulate each of our gestures, longings, desires and motivations and push us around the world, solve problems, to exchange with others, to create, discover, hate or destroy. The people around us and ourselves, we forget what has been verbally told us, but never forget how we have felt.
Frights, shocks or slights to tip us off to environment or mitigate at least some of the initial confidence with which we come into world. So in the first six or seven years, human settle the great emotional patterns that dictate how we see ourselves and how we see others. Then we recorded in our emotional minds, and therefore our behavior, if we are worthy of being loved and if safe be curious about the world that awaits us. Our first experiences with love and curiosity begin to form patterns of automatic responses based on how they treat us when we are young. Drag patterns have made these automatic responses, the rest of our lives. Change these patterns require an adult achieve first decipher a deliberate slow work, conscious and compared with the rapid, unconscious and intuitive learning of children.
Many things can prevent people from your good collaborative and empathic. The development of empathy, for example, is linked to the basic need for attachment, ie how we experienced the love and security in our early years. People who grew distrusting love their parents are usually kept in the egocentric phase of automatic emotional contagion (an expression of basic empathy), or become cold because they fleeing from suffering: do not tolerate as they have learned to distrust affection others because they did not provide them security and warmth.
learn from our experience, to overturning an attractive and satisfying fact, it is help others and interact with them.
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